KINDEST THING TO DO FOR YOURSELF!!!

The kindest thing you can do to yourself is to wave a goodbye with a smile on your face. You always hurt yourself by trying to hang on to someone that doesn't want to be held onto. 

"LET GO" could be tough when you want to held on them. You always try to save your relation with that person though you know they keep on hurting you again and again and surprisingly to you it seems okay to beg for that person to stay because you think that it is the only right way to love someone throughout your heart but for once try not to beg for it. Let it be the way it is, once you lose your emotional attachment to that person you'll realize how ordinary they were. It was just you who made them SEEM SO SPECIAL. Do you take care of the things which doesn't belong to you??? No right. Then why to keep chasing that person that doesn't belong to you anymore. "LET IT HURT and then LET IT HEAL" because when we stop people to choose us then only we make a room for the people that are made for us.


You probably think that they might need some time to be yours but believe me when I say this you don't need to hold onto something so tight with the fear of losing it any moment. Yes it will hurt because maybe they were never affected with the fact that your presence could be disappeared from there life any moment or even cared to be bothered with that fact but for YOU yes just you were
the one who was caring too much to be someone in there life. I know "LET GO" can be the hardest lesson to learn but believe me when you make that empty space for the better ones, you'll  heal yourself like nothing happened. Before ending this blog I would like you to ask yourself just a simple question that all those efforts you made for them were even worth it??


Maybe this is your reminder to "LET THEM GO".


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