FEAR IS TEMPORARY!!! REGRET IS FOREVER!!!

Fear. What is fear??? It could be about losing someone, that certain feeling about someone or maybe that small bound you had with them but according to me fear of losing can't be bigger than a regret that is going to follow you/me forever.

I can fear about certain things but I don't choose to live with regret forever. You must not fear to do tough task because it's new or you doubt your capability what if you are made for it???? The moment you give up on it the regret will haunt forever. Same goes with relations with people you fear to hurt them by going away, you fear that you might get lonely if you leave but have you ever thought of the regret you might be forever in your life that if you took that one step then both of you most probably grew apart and became something way better just because you choose to hurt yourself and them by staying together made it even more worse. 

In your life you might go from these kind of stages where you know the step you might take will give other people around you a chance to judge you, so you might think of giving up on it but after that GIVE UP STAGE the regret you will face in your life...STAYSSS FOREVERRR... 

THINK HYPOTHETICALLY ABOUT THIS... 

You have a toy in your life & you are very much attached to it . It is very rare to be found not everyone your age either have that toy but every time you stay with it you always end up getting hurt, it always hurts you in a way that you don't even know the exact problem with it. After a while you start questioning yourself that maybe the reason you are attached to it because it is rare to be found, it is attractive looking and no one can have it but at the same time you know it always end up hurting you in the worst way manner ever. At this moment what would you fear the most, that it hurts you right? But what if I say your attachment to it makes you unusually obsessed with that toy which makes you fear that what if you lose it one day without even caring about the fact it keeps on hurting you every time you choose it again and again. If you don't focus on those wounds and bruises it will tear up you soul so bad that healing it back will be near to impossible. Yes it can be rare but it is not more important than yourself, at this point it's not your happiness it's just your attachment that makes that toy so special that you fear to lose it but believe me when I say this as soon as possible you lose it,  the less you will regret about the scars it gave you.

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