LET IT HURT!!! LET IT HEAL!!!

Trust me this process is one of the most darkest phase of your life than anything. They all say you'll heal with the time but the process takes too much of your time, effort, smile, presence everything at this point. Healing hurts more than being hurt by someone because when you are with them atleast you create a hope in your life that they might change but then eventually you decide to heal yourself and  finally accept the fact you have to be away from them to be okay.

Like we all always say for success you need to have patience same goes with healing the much slow and steadily the process is, the much fruitful result you will have in the end. To be very honest "it always seems impossible....until it's done".

To heal yourself you need to attract positive energy towards yourself and for that you need to learn detachment. Healing will only work if you learn to detach yourself from negative energy. You need to adapt a optimistic attitude towards your healing process. Taking things slow might make you impatient but there is always a better result upcoming with it.

In simple words while you are healing you are like glass filled with dirty water in that healing enters like fresh water coming out a tap, while you are letting the fresh water replace the dirty water slowly and steadily only then you'll notice the glass is filled with fresh water because you let yourself go through  that replacement with a pace which was needed.

Maybe this is you're reminder to give yourself some time and let it heal.

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